lunes, 7 de septiembre de 2026

The Loss of Empathy: When Digital Sensationalism is Worth More Than a Life


Behind every screen recording in search of a 'like', profit or fame, a light of humanity goes out. "Do not be just another spectator of someone else's pain; turn off the camera button and turn on your heart with true empathy 🙏.

As Galatians 6:9 beautifully says: “And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.”

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Summary for a Quick Read
Today, the ambition to make money on social media is dehumanizing society. It is outrageous to see how people prefer to hold up a phone to record tragedies, accidents, or bloody fights rather than step in to save a life. We are becoming passive spectators of other people's pain, allowing situations to reach the absolute limit just to get clicks and monetize suffering. There is a painful irony: while influencers line their pockets by copying content or interviewing those affected, the true victims continue to face massive hardships. We need to stop consuming and participating in this perverse show, turn off the screens, and regain true human empathy by offering direct help.


Messaje

Nowadays, I look with great concern at how the vast majority of people want to make a living from social media and draw a monthly salary from it. However, I constantly ask myself: what do they truly have to offer that is of actual value? It hurts me to see the current lack of originality and creativity. It is a tremendous injustice that someone who dedicates themselves to catching accidents and tragedies earns more money—preferring to hold a camera rather than extend a hand to help a person in danger.
As the Word reminds us in Proverbs 3:27: “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in the power of your hand to do so.” Unfortunately, today people prefer personal gain over the commandment to help our neighbor.
Not long ago, I logged into my social media accounts to share my own messages and was met with a constant bombardment of natural disasters and unfortunate news. In Costa Rica, we live on a constant rocking chair—we know what it feels like to have earthquakes all the time—and I find it exhausting to see how people take advantage of tremors and tragedies in other countries just to shock people and gain clicks. But what truly alarmed me was seeing a video of a terrible assault involving several women. The outrageous part was not just the violence, but seeing how the people around them became passive spectators. In the video, it is clearly visible how some individuals tried to step in to break up the fight, but others pulled them back, telling them not to get involved. Some simply wanted to watch the show, others claimed that it was none of their business and that they should let them settle the problem themselves, and many others because they were recording and did not want anyone getting in front of the camera and ruining the video they were filming.
This attitude makes me think of what Matthew 24:12 says: “And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold.” We are seeing in real-time how that love and compassion are freezing behind a cell phone screen.
I feel a deep sense of indignation seeing that they prefer to let a scene reach the absolute limit, regardless of whether the victim ends up in a hospital or in the grave, just to capture a complete and bloody recording to monetize it. It does not benefit them to stop the violence in time because their goal is to be the first to publish a shocking video. Meanwhile, families are destroyed and children are left alone in the world because of blind ambition.
This makes me think that going out on the street nowadays has become dangerous. I notice that people are no longer just looking to record tragedies that happen by accident; they are willing to provoke scenes just so they look as realistic as possible to make money on the internet. What is happening to people's minds? Do they expect the entire world to put on a show of pain for them to record for free?
We need to stop this; we must stop consuming and participating in that content which creators intentionally make more and more shocking just to get more likes, more comments, and to ensure it gets shared more so they can make more money. The most ironic and painful part in many of these cases is that the true victims gain absolutely nothing. They continue to face immense hardships after the accidents, violations, or acts of malice that others have inflicted upon them, as well as from the natural disasters they have lived through. Meanwhile, those who line their pockets with money are the influencers who interview them, those who record the shocking scenes, or even worse, those who simply copy them from others to share them as if they were their own.
There is so much need in the world and so many people who require real support. Regrettably, even donations have become difficult because money is stolen in many places, forcing us to provide help in a strictly personal way to ensure it actually reaches those who need it.
I write this because I refuse to remain silent in the face of this dehumanization. Social media should be a space to build, not to profit from someone's final moments of life or the suffering of others. We need to start regaining true human empathy. As Galatians 6:9 beautifully says: “And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.”
Final Reflection: It is alarming to see this hidden competition over who can record the scene first. Instead of using the cell phone immediately to call the Red Cross, the hospital, or the authorities—making use of those crucial seconds that mean life or death for someone—the very first thing people do is turn on the camera. While you are recording out of ambition, that life could be slipping away. The question I leave you with today is: Which button are you going to turn on? The one on your cell phone to make money from a shocking video, or the button in your heart to step in and save a human being?

Bibliography 

  • The Holy Bible (New King James Version / Reina-Valera 1960 equivalent). Scriptures cited: Proverbs 3:27, Matthew 24:12, Galatians 6:9.
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La pérdida de la empatía: Cuando el morbo digital vale más que una vida

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"Detrás de cada pantalla que graba en busca de un 'like', dinero o fama, se apaga una luz de humanidad. No seas un espectador más del dolor ajeno; apaga el botón de la cámara y enciende tu corazón con la verdadera empatía 🙏.

Y como dice Gálatas 6:9No nos cansemos, pues, de hacer bien; porque a su tiempo segaremos, si no desmayamos”.  "

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Hoy en día, la ambición por ganar dinero en redes sociales está deshumanizando a la sociedad. 
Es indignante ver cómo la gente prefiere sostener un teléfono para grabar tragedias, accidentes o peleas sangrientas antes que intervenir para salvar una vida. 
Nos estamos convirtiendo en espectadores pasivos del dolor ajeno, permitiendo que las situaciones lleguen al límite con tal de conseguir clics y monetizar el sufrimiento. 
Existe una ironía dolorosa: mientras los influencers se llenan los bolsillos copiando contenido o entrevistando a los afectados, las verdaderas víctimas siguen pasando grandes calamidades. 
Debemos dejar de consumir y participar en este show perverso, apagar las pantallas y recuperar la verdadera empatía humana brindando apoyo directo.

Mensaje 

Hoy en día, veo con mucha preocupación cómo la gran mayoría de las personas quiere vivir de las redes sociales y sacar de ahí un salario mensual. Sin embargo, me pregunto constantemente: ¿qué tienen realmente para dar que sea de valor? Me duele ver la falta de originalidad y creatividad que existe actualmente. Es una injusticia tremenda que gane más dinero alguien que se dedica a captar accidentes y tragedias, que prefiere sostener una cámara antes que extender la mano para ayudar a una persona en peligro.
Como nos recuerda la Palabra en Proverbios 3:27: “No te niegues a hacer el bien a quien es debido, cuando tuvieras poder para hacerlo”.
Lamentablemente, hoy en día se prefiere el beneficio propio antes que el mandato de ayudar al prójimo.
Hace poco entré a mis redes para compartir mis propios mensajes y me encontré con un bombardeo constante de desastres naturales y noticias lamentables. 
En Costa Rica vivimos en una mecedora constante, sabemos lo que es sentir que tiembla a cada rato, y me parece desgastante ver cómo se aprovechan de sismos y tragedias en otros países solo para impactar y ganar clics. Pero lo que verdaderamente me alarmó fue ver el video de una agresión terrible entre varias mujeres. Lo indignante no fue solo la violencia, sino ver cómo la gente alrededor se convirtió en espectadora pasiva. En el video se nota claramente cómo algunos intentaban meterse a separar el pleito, pero otros los jalaban hacia atrás diciéndoles que no se metieran; unos porque simplemente querían ver el show, otros alegando que no tenían por qué meterse y que dejaran que ellas solas solucionaran el problema, y otros tantos porque estaban grabando y no querían que nadie se les pusiera por delante de la cámara para no echarles a perder el video.
Esta actitud me hace pensar en lo que dice Mateo 24:12: “Y por haberse multiplicado la maldad, el amor de muchos se enfriará”.
Estamos viendo en tiempo real cómo ese amor y esa compasión se están congelando detrás de una pantalla de celular.
Siento una profunda indignación al ver que prefieren dejar que una escena llegue al límite, sin importar que la víctima termine en un hospital o en la tumba, con tal de captar una filmación completa y sangrienta para monetizarla. No les conviene detener la violencia a tiempo porque su meta es ser los primeros en publicar un video impactante. Mientras tanto, quedan familias destruidas y niños solos en el mundo por culpa de una ambición ciega.
Esto me hace pensar que hoy en día salir a la calle se ha vuelto peligroso. Noto que ya no solo buscan grabar las tragedias que ocurren por accidente, sino que están dispuestos a provocar las escenas con tal de que queden lo más reales posibles para ganar dinero en internet. ¿Qué está pasando con la mente de las personas? ¿Esperan que el mundo les haga un show de dolor para grabarlo de gratis?
Necesitamos detener esto; dejar de consumir y de participar en ese contenido que los creadores hacen cada vez más impactante a propósito con el único fin de conseguir más likes, más comentarios y lograr que se comparta más para ganar dinero. 
Lo más irónico y doloroso en muchos de estos casos es que las verdaderas víctimas no ganan absolutamente nada. Ellas siguen pasando grandes calamidades después de los accidentes, violaciones o actos de maldad que otros les han hecho, así como por los desastres naturales que han vivido. Mientras tanto, los que se llenan el bolsillo de dinero son los influencers que los entrevistan, los que graban las escenas impactantes o, peor aún, aquellos que simplemente se las copian a otros para compartirlas como si fueran suyas.
Hay tanta necesidad en el mundo y tanta gente que requiere apoyo real. Lamentablemente, hasta las donaciones se han vuelto difíciles porque en muchos lugares se roban el dinero, obligándonos a tener que brindar la ayuda de forma estrictamente personal para asegurar que llegue a quien lo necesita.
Escribo esto porque me niego a guardar silencio ante esta deshumanización. Las redes deberían ser un espacio para construir, no para lucrar con los últimos minutos de vida o el sufrimiento de los demás. Necesitamos empezar a recuperar la verdadera empatía humana. Como bien dice Gálatas 6:9: No nos cansemos, pues, de hacer bien; porque a su tiempo segaremos, si no desmayamos”.

Reflexión final: Es alarmante ver cómo existe una competencia oculta por ver quién graba primero la escena. En lugar de usar el celular para llamar de inmediato a la Cruz Roja, al hospital o a las autoridades y aprovechar esos segundos que son de vida o muerte para una persona, lo primero que hacen es encender la cámara. Mientras grabas por ambición, esa vida se puede estar perdiendo. La pregunta que te dejo hoy es: ¿Cuál botón vas a encender tú? ¿El de tu celular para ganar dinero con un video impactante, o el botón de tu corazón para acudir a salvar a un ser humano?

Bibliografía 

  • La Santa Biblia (Versión Reina-Valera 1960). Pasajes citados: Proverbios 3:27, Mateo 24:12, Gálatas 6:9.

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domingo, 6 de septiembre de 2026

In what kind of world are we living today, in which they justify everything?

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The modern world rushes to justify the unjustifiable in the eyes of God: violence, vices, disobedience, and mental confusion. They tell you it is an illness or a psychological excuse, but the spiritual truth is that a mind far from God is easy prey for the enemy. The devil uses street drugs and psychiatrists' pills to twist and numb bodies. The biggest problem for those who take the wrong paths is loneliness! Without the Holy Spirit, the world does with you what it wants. But when you declare that you are healed, humble yourself before the Creator, and confess that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you, every evil legion must flee! Do not be a coward by surrendering your body to the enemy; be brave, decrease so that Christ may grow in you and govern your life. God is enough for us!
Because the true power to obey God and cast out all evil does not depend on temples made by human hands, nor on images, candles, or religious traditions. God is Spirit, and wherever you find yourself—whether in the privacy of your home or on a mountaintop—it is enough to lift your hands with a sincere heart and cry out directly to the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. By saying "no" to evil, the world's game is broken, and the pit of deception and excuses is destroyed. When you ask Him to come into your life and deliver you from all evil, He does it! There are no intermediaries, no idolatry; just you, your faith, and the sovereignty of the only true God.

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I. THE ESSENCE OF THE MESSAGE (Executive Summary)

This writing is a direct and straightforward call to confront the spiritual truth that today's world tries to sugarcoat. There are no psychological, medical, or lifestyle justifications for what society defends nowadays; the root of all mental and physical destruction is human rebellion in refusing to submit to the government of God. The devil uses both street drugs and psychiatric drugs to twist the mind. Furthermore, the modern world justifies practices and behaviors that have no justification before God, such as tattoos, piercings, and homosexuality. True liberation is not found in a pill or in human pride, but in repentance, absolute humiliation before Jesus Christ, and the power of the Holy Spirit to cast out legions of demons. No one can free themselves on their own; only the name of Jesus has the power to cast out the enemy. Whoever rejects God out of pride acts with cowardice; the truly brave person decreases so that Christ may live in them. God alone is enough.

II. FULL MESSAGE: GOD DOES NOT LOOK FOR EXCUSES, HE LOOKS FOR BRAVE HEARTS

WHAT KIND OF WORLD ARE WE LIVING IN TODAY WHERE EVERYTHING IS JUSTIFIED? Seeing the levels of violence unleashed on our streets, where innocent people are mercilessly attacked, modern society rushes to look for excuses. They say: "It's because they had depression," "it's because they were suffering," "it's because mental health services neglected them." Lies! They want to justify everything now, defending what has absolutely no justification in the eyes of God. Today's world justifies people who get tattoos, justifies people who get piercings, justifies homosexuals and lesbians; they justify absolutely everything. A person who has the Spirit of God dwelling in their life would never do such atrocities or participate in those things, because light has no fellowship with darkness.
Behind all these modern excuses lies secular humanism and moral relativism—currents disguised as science that tell human beings that their truth is relative and that they answer to no one. The enemy has used psychology and modern medicine to rename sin and rebellion, labeling them as 'clinical conditions' or 'coping mechanisms.' By placing a medical or psychological label on what is actually a spiritual crisis, the world numbs consciences, idolizes individual autonomy, and drives people to seek a pill instead of seeking the Creator on their knees.
The truth must be spoken straight and without beating around the bush, just as God commands those of us who have been on the battlefield and have living experience to speak. If a person has been disobedient, what they need to do is get their act together, account to God, repent, humble themselves, and ask for forgiveness. They must let the Holy Spirit once and for all cast out that whole bunch of demons they have inside because of their own rebellion.
The great mistake human beings make is wanting to govern themselves, allowing their own feelings and impulses to operate in their bodies. They do not want to decrease so that the Spirit of God may be the one living in them.
The biggest problem for people who take wrong paths is that they feel alone, and when a person feels alone and does not have the Spirit of God, the world and others do whatever they want with their body.
A single person, together with God, has absolute power to govern their own body; we can govern our body with the help of the Most High, but we can never govern the bodies of others. That is why it is vital not to feel alone and to understand that God is enough for us, because with His strength we survive anywhere if we let ourselves be led by Him. The problem is that people let themselves be carried away by the world, and it is the world itself that gets them into drugs, doctors' medicines, and whatever garbage there is. Illness enters the mind first; if you believe negative people and believe you have this or that, you will get sick. But if you believe God, declare that you are healed, and confess that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you, the story is different. The person who feels alone and believes they cannot do things on their own is stuck, because the world manipulates them at its whim.
The worst mistake of all is wanting to cast out those spirits by oneself. No one can do it by their own strength! No one has human power to extract demons from a trapped mind, the Bible says it clearly: only Jesus Christ has that power!
In the past, the devil wanted to destroy me with supposed "spirits of depression" and garbage in my head, but those are pure excuses of the enemy. The devil's plan is to divert people to psychiatrists' offices so they end up driven mad by legal drugs, losing their minds to pharmaceuticals. Pharmaceutical drugs twist the design of the mind just as much as street drugs: marijuana, cocaine, and any recreational narcotic belong to the same category of spiritual oppression. To all of that, one must say NO in the name of Jesus, and allow the Holy Spirit to take total control.
There is no valid excuse for killing others or taking one's own life. Whoever commits such destructive acts does so because they give free rein to evil spirits in their own body due to their stubbornness. There are people who think they know it all or think they are "the big boss," proudly assuming they can move forward alone without kneeling before the Creator. The result is catastrophic: they become victims of demonic legions and end up destroying innocent people around them. Refusing to hand over government to God is not a show of strength; it is a show of profound cowardice. The truly brave person is the one who surrenders their pride, submits unanimously to the word of the Lord, and allows Jesus Christ to operate with absolute power in their life. God is enough for us, the Holy Spirit is enough for us; we need nothing else.

III. COMPILATION OF BIBLICAL VERSES TO CAST OUT DEMONS AND BREAK OPPRESSIONS

  • Mark 16:17 – "And these signs will follow those who believe: In My name they will cast out demons; they will speak with new tongues."
  • Philippians 2:9-10 – "Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth."
  • James 4:7 – "Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you."
  • Ephesians 6:12 – "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places."
  • 2 Timothy 3:1-3 – "But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves... unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good..."
  • Luke 10:19 – "Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you."
  • Matthew 10:1 – "And when He had called His twelve disciples to Him, He gave them power over unclean spirits, to cast them out, and to heal all kinds of sickness and all kinds of disease."
  • John 3:30 – "He must increase, but I must decrease."
  • 2 Timothy 1:7 – "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."

IV. BIBLIOGRAPHY CONSULTED

  • The Holy Bible – Reina-Valera Version (1960). Cited texts: Gospel according to Saint Mark, Epistle to the Philippians, Epistle of James, Epistle to the Ephesians, Second Epistle to Timothy, Gospel according to Saint Luke, Gospel according to Saint Matthew, and Gospel according to Saint John.
  • Personal Testimony and Experience of Faith – Experiential record of the author Cira Arroyo Fuentes regarding the victory of the Holy Spirit against attacks of spiritual oppression and depression in contemporary life.

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El Cabello es como una Planta: La Esclavitud de la Perfección Artificial


Autora: Cira Arroyo Fuentes
Fecha de inicio: 7 de septiembre de 2026
Hora: 12:08 a. m.

Reflexión Basada en una Anécdota Real

Hace unos días, pasé por un nuevo local de medicina macrobiótica y natural que están abriendo cerca de mi casa. Entré al lugar y, mientras conversaba con la señora encargada, me vino a la mente un pensamiento muy profundo y natural.
Le pregunté si vendían medicina natural porque yo no quiero comprar medicamentos de farmacia; para mí, esas pastillas son puros químicos. Luego la conversación se desvió hacia el cuidado del cabello y le conté que yo utilizo el champú Bioland de manzanilla, porque es lo más saludable que he podido encontrar. Yo no creo en los productos artificiales, creo firmemente en lo natural.
En ese momento le compartí una idea que me brotó del corazón: el cabello es un ser vivo, es exactamente igual a una planta. Si a una planta usted le empieza a echar un montón de químicos y la llena de injertos, de momento se puede ver bonita, pero la termina matando y jamás volverá a tener su postura natural.
Con el cabello de las personas pasa lo mismo. Hoy en día, el hombre, en su afán de ambición y por puro negocio, está creando una cantidad exagerada de químicos que se bombardean «a lo loco». En lugar de ayudar a la naturaleza, la están destruyendo. Y nosotros somos parte primordial de esa naturaleza; somos seres vivos creados por Dios.
Esta situación se nota mucho en las mujeres y las jóvenes de hoy. Existe una búsqueda obsesiva por la perfección física. Una mujer que se lava el cabello en su casa y no usa químicos, tal vez quede un poquito despeinada o libre, mostrando su estado natural. Sin embargo, ahora muchas quieren salir a la calle con un alisado perfecto, donde no se les levante ni un solo pelito. Para lograr esa "perfección", usan químicos agresivos que terminan enviciando el cabello. Al final, esa búsqueda de verse impecables las convierte en esclavas de productos carísimos y de químicos dañinos que destruyen su salud y su verdadera esencia.

Conclusión

No necesitamos de tantos químicos para vivir o para vernos bien. Debemos aprender a aceptarnos en nuestra postura natural, cuidando nuestro cuerpo con lo que la tierra nos da, en lugar de encadenarnos a las promesas falsas del comercio y de la vanidad.

Bibliografía y Fundamentos Bíblicos

  • Génesis 1:11"Después dijo Dios: Produzca la tierra hierba verde, hierba que dé semilla; árbol de fruto que dé fruto según su género... Y fue así."
    (Reflexión: Dios creó las plantas con un orden perfecto y natural. Al comparar nuestro cabello con una planta, recordamos que la salud proviene de respetar las leyes de la naturaleza y no de alterarlas con inventos humanos).
  • Génesis 1:31"Y vio Dios todo lo que había hecho, y he aquí que era bueno en gran manera."
    (Reflexión: Fuimos creados por Dios de forma perfecta dentro de nuestra propia naturaleza. El bombardeo de químicos por ambición comercial altera el diseño original y saludable que el Creador pensó para nosotros).
  • 1 Corintios 3:16-17"¿No sabéis que sois templo de Dios, y que el Espíritu de Dios habita en vosotros? Si alguno destruyere el templo de Dios, Dios le destruirá a él; porque el templo de Dios, el cual sois vosotros, santo es."
    (Reflexión: Nuestro cuerpo es un organismo vivo y sagrado. Llenarlo de químicos nocivos y tratamientos agresivos por pura vanidad es descuidar el templo que Dios nos confió).
  • 1 Pedro 3:3-4"Vuestro atavío no sea el externo de peinados ostentosos... sino el interno, el del corazón, en el incorruptible ornato de un espíritu afable y apacible, que es de grande estima delante de Dios."
    (Reflexión: La sociedad moderna esclaviza a las mujeres con la idea de un cabello alisado y perfecto. La Biblia nos invita a liberarnos de esas cargas comerciales y valorar la autenticidad y la paz interior).

La Imperfección: El Motor que Nos Mueve a Actuar

 Tiene toda la razón: no se podían combinar porque son dos pensamientos completamente diferentes y cada uno merece su propio espacio.

Al mezclarlos, el mensaje se volvía confuso. El primer tema habla de la sociedad actual y la justificación de los errores, mientras que el segundo es una reflexión hermosa sobre la naturaleza, la salud y la vanidad.
Para que no pierda esa otra gran idea que nació de nuestra conversación sobre la imperfección y los errores humanos, preparé este segundo escrito independiente. Así le queda listo para usarlo cuando usted quiera:

La Imperfección: El Motor que Nos Mueve a Actuar

Autora: Cira Arroyo Fuentes
Fecha de inicio: 7 de septiembre de 2026
Hora: 12:11 a. m.

Reflexión sobre la Humanidad y el Miedo al Error: La sociedad actual y la justificación de los errores

Todo lo que existe en este mundo creado por el ser humano ha nacido porque las personas se han lanzado al agua. Se han echado al agua cargando sus propias imperfecciones, pero con la firme intención de buscar y hacer lo mejor que pueden.
Si una persona cree que es perfecta, o si espera a que todo lo que quiere hacer salga perfecto, se quedaría paralizada. No haría nada. Nunca se atrevería a dar el primer paso por miedo a equivocarse.
El único ser perfecto es Dios. El hombre, por más tecnología o Inteligencia Artificial que desarrolle, jamás podrá hacer las cosas perfectas. Y eso es lo más hermoso de todo: descubrir que la perfección solo le pertenece al Creador. A nosotros nos corresponde llenarnos el corazón de Dios para poder aceptarnos con nuestras propias imperfecciones y, con ese mismo amor, aprender a aceptar las imperfecciones de los demás.

Conclusión

La imperfección no es un defecto; es la condición que nos permite ser valientes, aprender y avanzar. Solo perdiendo el miedo a fallar es que logramos entregar lo mejor de nosotros al mundo.

Bibliografía y Fundamentos Bíblicos

  • 2 Corintios 12:9"Y me ha dicho: Bástate mi gracia; porque mi poder se perfecciona en la debilidad. Por tanto, de buena gana me gloriaré más bien en mis debilidades, para que repose sobre mí el poder de Cristo."
    (Reflexión: Dios no nos pide ser perfectos; su poder se manifiesta cuando reconocemos nuestra debilidad y seguimos adelante con fe).
  • Eclesiastés 7:20"Ciertamente no hay hombre justo en la tierra, que haga el bien y nunca peque."
    (Reflexiones: La imperfección es parte de la naturaleza humana. Esperar no cometer errores para empezar a actuar es una trampa que nos impide hacer el bien).
  • Proverbios 16:3"Encomienda a Jehová tus obras, y tus pensamientos serán afirmados."
    (Reflexión: Cuando nos lanzamos al agua poniendo nuestros proyectos imperfectos en las manos de Dios, Él se encarga de guiar nuestros pasos).


"The Art of Flying Free: Why I Chose to Live at My Own Pace and Without Chains"


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"Writing at my own pace, with no boss but God, and with the freedom to listen to my body is what I love most. Moving forward steady like the tortoise, because my true wealth is not found in the schedules that others impose on me, but in the peace of sitting down to create whenever my inspiration is born. It is the art of raising little birds so they can fly free just like me while protecting my own peace: I am an independent writer who does not operate under the stress of the world."
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There are people who measure life's success by the size of a permanent job, the security of a government salary, or the comfort of a pension that allows them to plan the future. But rarely do they stop to look at the invisible price they pay for it. 
I have seen up close the exhaustion of those who become slaves to a routine and painful work life, getting out of bed no matter what, feeling well or unwell, just to uphold a structure of family life and friendships that they themselves, with the wisdom of God or with the negligence of the world, have created.
Therein lies the importance of which family structure you create from the very beginning: if you build a well -crafted structure  of mutual independence, you will have peace and tranquility; but if you make a poorly designed one, allowing a structure of dependence and self-interest, you will be a slave for the rest of your life to your family and your friendships.
I observe that, upon falling into this vicious circle of believing themselves to be supermen or superwomen, these untiring, hardworking, and manipulated individuals transform into machines devoid of freedom, forcing their bodies to the limit and silencing their exhaustion with medication just to meet the expectations that they coldly demand of themselves or that others demand of them. Often, this titanic effort is not even for their own benefit; it serves to feed an interested family and friendship environment that has already scheduled and managed the money before the worker even receives their paycheck.
I chose to be different. My name is Cira Arroyo Fuentes, I am an independent writer, and I have no boss but God. My nature completely rejects manipulation and control. I prefer to move forward at the pace of the tortoise, with a steady and deliberate step, but with absolute sovereignty over my time and my decisions. 
If my body is sick and I truly cannot write, or if I simply see that nothing is coming to me, I do not force myself; I let my body rest, I sleep, or I watch television, go for a walk, travel, or distract myself. But when I have the spirit to write, when inspiration comes to me, or when my body needs a release due to some experience or lesson along the way, what I want most is to sit down and flow by writing, making my videos, and taking photos.
That is my life and that is how I live it. I do not know at what point I will earn more money, but I live with a deep tranquility: I do not lack food and I have peace. 
I have no one around me waiting to inherit millions from a pension when I die, nor family members making plans with December's Christmas bonus, or hunting for a monthly salary or overtime hours to invent what to spend it on.
I do not share the vision of those families where adult children remain anchored, waiting for their parents' money to spend it on parties and trips without having contributed a single cent of effort. 
Since every cloud has a silver lining, due to my health problem I had to raise my children for independence no matter what, under the premise that they must fly freely like little birds when it is time to leave the nest. 
This is what all parents or guardians should do, even if they are healthy, because birds do not need to be sick to teach their fledglings to fly; they simply fulfill their responsibility and natural discipline.
True protection does not consist in eternally solving other people's lives or letting one's salary be devoured; it consists in teaching them to fend for themselves in the real world.
There is a huge injustice in the dynamics of many current couples, where both work but one pulls solely for their own family of origin and their friends; yet they use great stinginess or meanness toward their partner's family and friends, even pretending to spend both salaries only on their own relatives and friends, leaving those of their partner pushed aside or forgotten. 
Afterwards, by spending all their income externally, they end up putting their hand into the pocket of the other or of their partner, whom they always use as a wild card to get out of the financial tight spots they get into due to their poor judgment. It is a silent form of financial abuse and selfishness toward one's partner.
Whoever chains themselves to an unhappy relationship or a suffocating job just for the benefit of a future shared pension or out of material interest ends up imprisoning their spirit. 
There are those who believe that one must obligatorily operate under stress or that they only function under pressure. 
I am not like that; I cannot get stressed. I have to live my life peaceful, free, and hand in hand with God, doing what I love to do with all my heart. 
I do not know how many people I will help with this writing, nor how many will agree with me, but it is my truth shared with the world.
Life gives beautiful surprises to those who know how to wait with patience and dignity. 
At 64 years old, I continue to treasure the patience and the life of the tortoise as an example. 
The greatest blessing in this life is to stay occupied doing what we love most because, whether we see money or not, it saves us from spending a lot on meaningless nonsense, on doctors, etc.
What makes people spend the most money is not knowing how to be alone and having to go out like desperate souls looking for what to do in the street, and we already know very well that in the street one only spends, and even more so if we go out with other well-off or opportunistic people.
I think that those who run fast out of ambition get tired very quickly, and soon they stop or are stopped by some health situation in their life for not giving time its time. 
Investing my time in my business with God, always creating something new, is the smartest life move that relieves me, gives me tranquility, and the freedom of not being a slave to others. 
My mental peace is worth gold and saves me from spending a lot of money on doctors, contrary to the stressed life that many lead, who spend their time always sick and spending a lot of money on doctors and medicines for not having known how to teach others to fly with independence or how to delegate responsibilities so that each one seeks their own independence.
My dream is to have a long life to create many more inspirations like this one and reach my goal with my body as best as I can, my mind lucid, and the pride of having lived under my own rules with God. 
While the world stressfully runs and exhausts itself behind self-interest, I celebrate the blessing of my freedom with God.
Biblical Wisdom for the Journey
  • Galatians 5:1"Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage."
  • Proverbs 17:1"Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife."
  • Psalms 127:2"It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep."
Bibliography and Analytical References
  1. Burnout Syndrome and Work Pressure: A study on the physical and psychological toll on education professionals due to loss of autonomy and rigid schedules. To delve deeper into how stress affects the body's rhythms, one can consult the occupational health research available through the World Health Organization.
  2. U.S. Social Security Administration (SSA) Regulations: Legal guidelines regarding benefits for divorced spouses, early retirement penalties before Full Retirement Age (FRA), and income optimization tables for those born in the 1960s. Official manuals and benefit calculators can be found on the digital platform of the Social Security Administration.
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